On Monday evening  we had a lengthy staff meeting at my afternoon school with our district Superintendent, five other BIG-Wigs from the district, and our school principal.  It seems that because we have such declining enrollment in a large-capacity building, drastic measures need to be taken to keep our school open.  The Sup’s idea is to turn our school into a school driven by gender-based instruction.  Put simply, we would implement both an all- boys and an all-girls "academy" of sorts for all core content areas in grades k-3, starting next school year, then adding a grade level each year until we are gender-based for k-6. Specialist classes and lunch would be co-ed.

In St Paul Public Schools we service about 41,000 students and offer a ton of school choices for students….neighborhood schools and magnet schools.  Each magnet school has a specific focus (Math & Science, Technology, Creative Arts, Aerospace, communications, Museum magnet, Year-round schools, American-Indian magnet, World Cultures, French Immersion and Spanish Immersion, just to name a few.  Magnets schools always perform better and have higher enrollment rates because no matter where the child lives in the district, they receive bussing to the magnet schools.  Neighborhood schools don’t fare as well….if a child moves out of the attendance area, they are usually forced to move to another school because transportation is NOT provided.  As you can probably imagine, neighborhood schools that are in tough, transient neighborhoods with a high number of rental properties struggle because of the transition rate of kids moving in and out.

Our district has just recently implemented gender-based instruction at one of our middle schools and it is going very well, but there is nothing like it at the elementary level in our district.  Research has been done on gender-based instruction and there are quite a few schools like this around the country that are showing very positive achievement outcomes because of it.  It is the hope of our Superintendent and staff that providing a unique experience like this will be a big draw to our school and that it will drastically increase enrollment.

I am interested to find out more about the program and how it will work.  I think there are definite benefits to providing gender-based instruction and I am kind of excited to be part of the pilot project.

What are your thoughts on gender-based instruction? Would you be willing to try it with your children if there were significant benefits?

 

And I don’t mean a Big Mac either!! LOL.

I am talking Mac as in Apple computer.  The Macbook Pro, to be exact.

I have hated Macs all my life, so what the heck spurred this sudden desire, you ask?

Well, iMovie, of course.  (I want to learn sooooo bad!) And the new Mac OS X Leopard operating system that debuts this week. Watch the video and you’ll want one too!  OMG, and I thought the iPhone was cool….this blows everything I have seen yet away!!  I can easily access and network to my PC laptop.  Perfect :)

Only problem is, Macs are EXPENSIVE.  Like waaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyy more than a PC.  I can get a teacher discount of $200, but that is it.  I will also have to purchase a HD video camcorder (or why bother?).  Thats like a minimum of $3K.  Holy crap!!!

Not to mention my laptop is less than a year old and someone told me to buy a Mac last year when I was buying a new laptop but I didn’t listen :(

Am I crazy? I don’t even own an iPod (but I do use iTunes)

Who are my Mac people?????  Is it worth it???

 

Not much new to report, but I did get to watch a couple of movies yesterday…

Firewall with Harrison Ford and Boogeyman.

Now I just have to confess right here and now that when I was a child, I believed in the Boogeyman.  He lived in my basement!!!! (Which was very creepy and unfinished for the most part until I was a teenager.  Secret rooms and everything).

Why did I think the Boogeyman lived down there?

Because my dad told me so. Many, many times.

Why the heck would a parent tell something like that to their children????

It scared the heck out of me until I was probably 14 or so.  No kidding.

If I had to go to the basement for any reason, I would run as fast as I could to the top of the stairs because I was always afraid the Boogeyman was right behind me and was going to get me.

NEVER would I sleep down there until I was a teenager, and then only if I had friends sleeping over with me.

This movie last night was pretty scray, although the Boogeyman in the movie lived in the closet, not the basement.

I am going to buy my dad this movie and make him watch it!!! I want him to get the sh*t scared out of him so he knows a little about the trauma he caused in me. (PS I love my dad, but I still don’t understand why he used to say that crap.)

Anyone else care to admit they were afraid of the Boogeyman or some other creey phenomena????

Anyone scare the crap out of their kids with horror stories like that????

 

I need some advice here, friends.  I wasn’t going to write about something so personal, but I really truly need some advice and support.

Many of you know by now that I have four cats….3 males (Phoenix, Pharaoh, Dusty) and one female (Isis).

Isis was the most recent addition to my home, nearly 3 years ago.  Her breed is a Manx, (a tail-less cat).  I got her when she was about 6 months old, and she had come from a situation where she had very little interaction with humans.  It is hard to describe her personality, but she is not friendly towards humans and runs if approached.  Only on rare occasions will she approach anyone but me, and she won’t let most people touch her.  Usually she hisses and runs away.  Her hideout is under the king-size bed in our Master bedroom. She has earned herself the nicknames "Icicle"  "Icy Bitch" and "Ice Princess".  She seems to get along just fine with Phoenix (actually, she is in LOVE with him) and also Dusty, but it is noticable lately that she has been picking on Pharaoh because he is so much smaller than she is.  She has also picked on and attacked the neighbor’s dog when he has brought him over.

None of the cats are declawed (I don’t believe in it), so they have to be clippedw every 1-2 weeks.  Except for with Isis this is nearly impossible.  Impossible to catch the little bitch and when we do, she puts up a huge fight.

On Sunday morning I had just fed the cats and all of a sudden Isis starts chasing Pharaoh away from the food dishes and starts swatting at him, hissing.  Pharaoh starts screaming bloody murder.  The sounds of Isis and Pharaoh fighting woke were really loud.  I hadn’t clipped Isis’s nails in awhile, so I trapped her in the  bedroom and tried to coax her out from under the bed to clip her damn nails.  Of course she wouldn’t come, but she was kind of close enough for me to grab her by the scruff and drag her out.  Well she didn’t like this and I was probably not very gentle with her.  She did not like me clipping her front claws, but I got the job done.  Trying to get her back claws was a different story.  She hissed, scratched and bit me a couple of times as I was trying to get the job done.  I was calm with her up to this point and explained to her that if she didn’t let me clip her nails, she was going to have to find a new home.  I am not  putting up with this crap, little girl.  It isn’t okay to terrorize Pharaoh.

So when I was done I head into the bathroom with wounds all up and down my arms and tears rolling down my face, cat hair stuck to every inch of me.  There is no way I could continue to put up with this.   Then she ran up to a friend and ferociously ATTACKED him, biting him multiple times in the hand.  She left puncture holes in his hand and he was bleeding profusely for about a half hour.  His hand swelled up to almost double its normal size. 
 

I called the vet first thing Monday morning and discussed the situation with the vet tech.  Her suggestion was to have Isis declawed before thinking about having her euthanized.  The earliest appt. is next Tuesday.  The entire situation was discussed at length last night and the conclusion is that she can no longer live in the home.  If she is declawed it will eliminate the problem with her clawing and attacking me or others, but who is to say she won’t resort to biting more?  Will her lack of claws stop her from being aggressive toward Pharaoh and not allowing him to eat? Probably not.

I don’t think it would be a good idea to surrender her (no shelters are intaking animals anyway) because I don’t know how she would do in any home.  She is a wild cat and I have often wondered if she has something neurologically wrong with her too.  It could have something to do with her breed.  Who would take on a cat that attacks and bites when scared?

I thought that maybe a farm would be the best option.  She would be a great mousing cat and could do well without the human interaction, but she is also somewhat of a princess and has only lived as an inside cat.  This seems to be the only option at this point that would allow her to keep her life.

The last option and one that is winning out in the options  is having her euthanized later this week.  It breaks my heart to think about it because she can be really sweet to me and shows affection toward me that she has shown no other human (but only when I am in bed, laying still).

Most people I know are telling me to put her down, but I don’t want to regret it the rest of my life.  I also know that I couldn’t give her away in good conscience knowing that she is likely to bite or attack someone when she is scared.  PS I know others who have way more vicious cats than Isis and they deal with it.

So what do I do???  Does anyone know any farms in MN that are willing to give her a try?  She is spayed.

 

I saw this on Nicole’s blog and had to steal it! Just click below the map where it says "Sign Guestbook" and then add a pic of yourself and your location.  I hope to see many of you :)

 

Yesterday was such a sad day.  Not only was it really depressing watching the news coverage of the bridge collapse, but I also got bad news from a couple of my friends (all unrelated to the bridge event). 

**Please say prayers for the young dad in my hometown who took his own life on Monday and left behind a wife and 1 1/2 year old daughter.  His friends and family are hurting really badly right now.

**Please say prayers for a friend of mine whose domestic partner was hit and dragged for hundreds of feet under a car while working in New Jersey a few weeks ago.  He is now off life support but is going to need a long time to recover from all of the injuries.

**Please say a prayer for one of my college roomates who is now 34 weeks pregnant and suffering from a large cyst on her ovary and pre-term labor.  She has been in/out of the hospital for the past six weeks and has been on bedrest for awhile now.  Pray that she makes it another couple of weeks before giving birth.

**Please continue to say prayers for all the people affected by the bridge collapse here in Minneapolis.

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To get my mind off this bad stuff, I spent quite some time yesterday with my scrap stuff :)

This is the layout I made at Archiver’s the other night.  I added the pics and lettering, this one is for Annika’s album.  I had no idea what pics I was going to add when I first made the page, and the only letter we could put on our layout was the "F".  Doesn’t go very well with "Easter", but oh well!

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Using up most of my Love, Elsie stuff….

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The pretty silk flowers (behind the paper ones) on this one were a gift to me from Sarah (birthday present) and this was the perfect LO to use them on! The right page is based on this sketch.

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Going to scrap much more tonight when some of the girls come over!

 

Could someone enlighten me about what is so appealing about these shoes? I have been wondering for awhile now!

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Who will admit to owning a pair and where do you actually wear them??? Take my poll!

 

How many of you have heard of or have read this book? Or have seen the documentary movie that is based on it?

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I was tempted to buy it last week after my friends Kim and Bradie raved so much about it.  I also saw that it is currently.  #1 on the NY Times Best Seller list.  I looked through the book, but didn’t buy it.  Seemed kind of boring to me, but then again I am not the type to buy self-help books.  I guess I won’t know "The Secret" unless I leave my comfort zone a little, huh?

For those who have read it, is it really life-changing????

 

This week marks the 2nd anniversary of this blog, Mi Vida Ocupada aka www.sweetsauer.com.

Wow, did that two years go fast!

Check out these stats…

Posts: 481 Hits: 56,622  Comments: 2511 

I’ve even had visitors from all over the world :)

Thank you to everyone who has supported this journey.  Thank you for reading, I truly appreciate the audience.  This blog has been an important outlet for so many different aspects of my life and it would be weird not to have it now.  What did I ever do before?!

Please help me celebrate this anniversary by leaving a comment telling me what you have enjoyed about this blog.

Is it all my pictures? Scrapbook layouts? My random thoughts? Book reviews?

Or just that it is a way to stay connected to me?

I’d love to hear from everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lurkers come out!!!!  Friends. family, other bloggers.  Come out, come out, whoever and where ever you are!

Have an awesome weekend and enjoy today!!!!!!!

 

Last night two of my best friends and I were sitting around, and we happened to start talking about our earliest memories.  They told me their memories and I told them the memory I am about to tell you.  It seems that most people don’t recall anything before the age of 4, but we all agreed that people may remember things that happened even earlier, especially if it was something traumatic or a life-changing event.

The earliest memory that I can recall happened when I was 3 1/2.  We were living at the house I grew up in, built in the mid-70s.  The thing that is important to mention about that house (as it relates to this story) is the open stairway leading to the basement with railing posts set about a foot apart.  My brother Brian was exactly 1 1/2 years old when he crawled through the railing at the top of the stairs and fell a whole story to the cement floor of the basement.  I don’t remember every detail of the event, but I do remember my mom freaking out (what parent wouldn’t under those circumstances?), the ambulance coming to get him and I remember going to the hospital.

The details that I don’t exactly remember, but know about because we have recapped this story so many times, is that Brian had been eating a banana or a rice crispie bar when he fell through.  When my mom raced to the bottom of the stairs, she found Brian alive, but a bloody gooey mess in his mouth…she thought at first that he had bitten off his tongue.  After the ambulance came and we took Bri to the hospital, it was determined that he had not been injured at all in the fall.  Thank GOD!!! The day that he fell happened to be the anniversary of my Grandma Irma’s death (my dad’s mom), and the half-birthday of Brian.  My mom has always believed that it was Grandma Irma who helped break Brian’s fall that day, that she is his guardian angel :)

So now that I have shared that story with you, anyone care to share their earliest memory with me??  Or at least tell me about how old you were.

 

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Why is it that all the best chocolatiers in the world live somewhere other than the USA???

A quick search on the internet claims the following chocolatiers are the World’s Best: Alessio Tessieri, Jacques Torres, La Maison du Chocolate, Max Brenner, Fritz Knipchildt, Noka Choclates, Godiva, DeLafee, Richart Chocolates, Green Mountain Chocolates, or Pascal Caffet.

Until today, I had never heard of any of these chocolates except for the famous Godiva.  How sad is it that there are such fabulous chocolates out there that I have never had the pleasure of trying??!!  I guess it is time for me to crawl out of my chocolate naiveete.

You may ask yourself…Why is Kristi writing about chocolate? Because I just spent $2 buying the worst chocolate bar in the world from a student who was selling them for a fundraiser, and it is so bad, I can’t even eat it!!  I guess with chocolates, you get what you pay for?!

I am not a choco-holic by any means, but if I am craving it (usually once a month), I HAVE to have it!!  My personal favorites are Godiva, Dove, and Cadbury.  Ghirardelli, See’s and Hershey’s aren’t too bad either.  Creamy milk chocolates are my favorite, but I also enjoy truffles! 

What other chocolates are out there that are worthy of knowing about?? 

What are your personal favorites? This is an easy one, kids.  Please leave a comment :)

 

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I’d like to hear from those of you who have ever taken a cruise….

Where did you go?

What cruise line did you use?

What time of year was your cruise?

What important things about cruisin’ do you think I should know???

Thanks :)

 

Have any of you happened to catch Bizarre Foods with Andrew Zimmern on the Travel Channel? (Its on Monday nights).  In case you haven’t, this guy Andrew travels all over the world with the goal of trying every kind of local food, which in many cases are things many of us wouldn’t dream of eating.  The show I saw earlier this week was when he was in Morocco.  One of the big cities there has a big meat market where you can choose from a variety of vendors.  As Andrew goes around sampling food, the cameras are there to ctach his reaction.  I laughed my butt off many times at his expressions immediately following eating something that he didn’t like. (Like the sheep’s eyeball or the putrid meat mixed with eggs). He is pretty honest while still diplomatic about it at the same time.

My policy has always been that I am willing to try anything once, but other than exotic sushi, the most weird things I have ever eaten are alligator, frog legs, rabbit, buffalo, and carne lengua (cow’s tongue).  Oh, and the worm from a mezcal bottle AFTER drinking most of the tequila.  I would have to change that policy if I am ever traveling abroad! You will definitely NEVER catch me eating any kind of insect or worm, or various animal body parts (like penis or brains). 

Makes me even more thankful for the plethora of eating options we have here in our country!

No thanks!  Would you try any of those things?? What is the most bizarre food you have ever eaten?

 

…….. for an additional blog.

I want to start up and dedicate a new blog to reviewing various restaurants around the Twin Cities.  Wouldn’t that be cool????  I love to eat out, but I usually end up going to the same places.  This would allow me to expand our options :) Thanks to the Burrito Blog once again for putting the bug in my head!

I looked to see if there were other websites like this already out there.  I could only find one with this specific focus…but its not that great, IMO. I could probably do much better!

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I would create a sample menu of offerings, take photos, price guide, atmosphere, and quality of food, etc.

I realize that I will not be able to update it as often as this blog (I just couldn’t afford to eat out as often as I’d like), but it might also allow me to add additional authors to create reviews.  Anyone interested in helping?? Jeffrey????

Is this a good idea or what?? I’d love some feedback!

What should I name it???

 

First of all, I would like to give a BIG shout-out to Ms. Teague for doing up this fabulous tutorial about how to use Photoshop brushes.  I finally figured it out!  Here is my first simple attempt:

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This is a photo I took of one of my girlfriends who has just 7 weeks to go until her baby is born!  Since they chose not to know the sex of their baby, she has several thoughts on what to name the baby.

What you name your baby is very important, don’t you agree? Here are some sites about names, etc that I found fun to check out!

History of Names

Baby Namer

Popular Baby Names

Baby Name Network

Funny Baby Names (Thanks Jennifer!)

Thats all I have time for right now….it is absolutely gorgeous for being January in Minnesota, so I am going to go out and enjoy it!

Have a great weekend everyone!

 

Is anyone else out there sisterless too?  I have been meaning to write about this topic for quite some time now.  I thought maybe at least one of you might be able to relate to what I am talking about.  I can pretty much say that all of my girlfriends have a sister(s).  I have sat and thought about this quite a bit, and the only two friends of mine that I can think of that also do not have a sister are Cassie and Mandie.  And these two happen to be only children, so they not only have no sisters, but they also do not have the luxury of having a brother either!  Although I do not have any sisters, I am lucky enough to have two wonderful younger brothers, Brian and Jeff.  I love them both to death and wouldn’t trade them for anything in the world, but sometimes I think it would be great to have a sister too.  I have many best friends and my very own sister in law, but like I mentioned, they all have their own sisters.  Girls that grew up in the same house together. That share the unique bond of sisterhood.  Something that I will never know….

What is it exactly that I feel like I am missing out on? I don’t even know for sure.  I just have this conception that sisters are the greatest thing to have.  They grew up together, played girly toys and games together.  They are always there for each other, stand up for each other, help each other, give & take advice, share, have the same values, learn from one another, and tell secrets.  Talk on the phone to each other every day.  I don’t even think I’d mind some of the cat fights that all sisters are bound to have.

Since I will never be able to understand the bond of sisterhood, I will tell you some of the reasons why it has been great being sisterless for all these years.  I never had to share my room.  Never had someone raiding my closet without permission.  Never been blackmailed for something stupid or naughty that I did.  Never had to be jealous that she was "prettier" or "smarter".  Never had to fight for attention. Never had to wear hand-me-downs. Never had to share my girl stuff.

Reasons why its been so great to have brothers: I was the big sis and had two cute little boys looking up to me.  I learned to play all kinds of sports and games.  Got to understand how boys think and act.  Unconditional love and affection.  Little brothers can grow up to be strong men.  They get to be uncles to your children (someday), and they give you sweet little baby nieces (Annika!) to hug and kiss.

So I guess being sisterless isn’t actually that bad after all! Is anyone else with me????

 

Where is the one place in the world you would go to, if someone offered to buy you a trip anywhere you wanted to go??

I expect you all to answer this one for me!!!!!!!!

 

Have you ever fainted?  I never have, but it seems pretty scary watching it happen….I imagine it would be even scarier if it happened to you.  I am bringing this subject up because just yesterday during our winter concert at school a little girl fainted in the middle of the program (she was standing on the risers in the front row) and landed smack on her face.  The poor thing! The entire audience got very quiet and we all stood there horrified….many teachers ran to her assistance but she was out for a few minutes before she regained consciousness.

Another time I was at a rally for George W Bush a few days before the last election (and no…I am not a huge fan) and they brought out all these speakers/celebrities to get the crowd going before the President arrived.  One of the girls who had been speaking (not sure who she was) fainted right during Bush's speech….and she was very close to the podium so it was very obvious to the entire stadium.

Just curious if any of you have ever fainted and if you remembered it happening or what you felt like before you went down?  I have felt nauseaous plenty of times, but how do you know if it might make you faint???

I am probably weird for even writing a post like this!

So anyway…I went to that Bush rally because a friend of mine got me a VIP ticket. His wife is a sign-language interpreter and he thought he'd be able to get me in to  meet the  President…or at least shake his hand.  I had to go through high-tech security for this opportunity, but when else might I ever meet a President of the US??  Well, I didn't get to meet him, but I did touch his arm as he walked by me after the Rally! What a great pic this is, huh??!!

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And that concludes my Brush with Bush! LOL

Have a great weekend :)

 

Hey ladies!

I am going to be pretty stereotypical here when I say that most women like to dress up their wardrobe with accessories….shoes, jewelry, hats, scarves, belts, purses, etc.  It is these extras that can make or break an outfit, don’t you agree?

Most women start with the outfit and then look for the accessories.  But have you ever started with an accessory and then built the outfit around it?  I know a lot of women who do that too!  Like a friend of mine at work made this really pretty bracelet last week and then went through her whole closet trying to find something to go with it.  I have also started with a pair of shoes and then gone in search of the perfect outfit to go with it!  I know this is back-asswards, but it is still kind of fun.

Why am I talking about accessories?  Because I think most of us (and yes, I am generalizing here because I think about 95% of my readers are women!) have a certain weakness for a particular accessory.  I have gone through many over the years…..hats, bags, and jackets. My biggest one for the last several years is JEWELRY!

I love having the perfect rings, bracelets and earrings to go with an outfit….some are better with gold, some with silver/white gold. **Side note…have you all noticed how HOT gold gold is again this season??** And certain gems/beads/stones can really enhance the colors in that hot little top or that soft sweater that is hanging at the front of your closet.  The thing that I like best about jewelry is that it never really goes out of style so it is worth the investment to purchase it. Not to mention that Erick loves to buy it for me and has excellent taste ;)

Are you the gal who will pay $$$$ for that cute little Coach bag without batting an eyelash?  Or for the cutest little shoes??  I know I am most definitely NOT alone ladies, so please confess to me where your accessory obsessions lie……..

 

Ever since I can remember, I have been fascinated by the paranormal.  I love to hear stories of guardian angels, the sixth sense (ESP), dreams that foretell the future, and my very favorite, true ghost stories.  I know there are many skeptics out there….I am not one of them.  There is no doubt in my mind that ghosts exist.  I had my first experience with a ghost when I was 13.  I was babysitting at a neighbor’s house on a stormy summer night and saw the misty figure of an old woman disappear around the corner and into another room. It scared me out of my ever loving mind and still gives me goosebumps!!  The neighbor confirmed with my father that the house was indeed haunted and they moved out shortly afterward.

The second experience I had was back in college in my dorm room…. crazy stuff happened! I had originally told the story hear but didn’t want ya’ll to think I am a weirdo, so I erased it!

I think that the fear and acceptance that ghosts exist is part of what appeals to me.  Whatever the case, the month of October seems very appropriate for seeking out a good ghost story.  The Travel Channel has several programs about hauntings.  Some are cheesy, but nevertheless, I would rather watch any of these than some of the other junk that is on the air. There are also several good sites where people can write in the stories of their own experiences, such as Ghost.org, The Shadowlands, and True Ghost Stories.

Now tell me, do you believe in ghosts??? Has anyone else had an experience?

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